Do Older Women Have Sex?

I was asked today by a young man, “Do older women have sex?”

Being an older woman, I can say yes.

We can have orgasms.

The best sex is with my husband over the years as we both change.

Intimacy is about being connected with emotions, feeling close, and support from your partner.

Tender touches, hugs, and soft kisses.

Some call this foreplay I call it being connected with the man I love.

As an older woman I have pain in my muscles so I a nice massage from my man and then I give him a massage.

Understanding the older body and how to deal with it leading up to lovemaking.

Knowing what positions to use.

Being older doesn’t mean we have sex every night.

But we do when the body and mind connect.

Talk honestly with each other.

See a doctor when needed.

Sex isn’t about the orgasm.

It is about the intimacy leading you there.

My Journey